Kamis, 04 Desember 2014

Falling in Love, Is True Love or Obsession?


Falling in love, one day it will happen to you. You will find yourself suddenly fall in love and will amaze you. You can not run from it. Love finally catch everyone. It may be fast or slow. Any time, regardless of the length of time it takes, you can be absolutely sure someday be head over heels in love with someone.

But that's not the scary part.

The scary part is most people love sometimes tend to blind or so it seems.

The truth is, true love is hard to come by. True love is rare. When you finally find something that seems like true love, you grab it with both hands. You invest everything you have in it. Unfortunately, you may find a few months later that it was not true love. You have been chasing a dream!

Which brings us back to the really scary part. Love tends to blind. People who are in love tend to be irrational and illogical. The emotion of love takes over. After that, nothing else matters.

Why is this scary?

The answer is simple. Love can be damaging. Love, love is blind, can ruin your life.

Yes, one type of love is blind love. This kind of love is an obsession.

True love or pure love, constructive and nurture. True love is

- realistic
- Loving
- Attentive
- Not selfish
- Practical and down to earth

Blind love or obsession unrealistic, selfish, and destructive.

When in love, ask yourself what kind of love you feel. Is true love or obsession? Is your love by not selfish and unrealistic expectations or fantasy?

True love is not based on physical attraction. Physical attraction eventually faded as people age. What is important is the personality of your beloved spiritual virtue.

Obsession is blind, physically destructive. True love is clear, build, refreshing.

True love, pure love, based on realistic expectations and facts. Selfless and work for the good partner. Obsession, on the other hand, does not care about reality. Just focus on the physical and immediate profit.

Evaluate your feelings properly before proceeding with a love relationship.

Relationship based on true love last forever. Relationship based obsessions usually transient and momentary. That is the reason why some marriages last for two weeks, about seven days, and the other a lifetime.

The difference is true love. True love is true and goes on forever.

You fall in love?

Make sure it is true love. Evaluation of the candidate in relation to your lover that you most want what is known and proven that make a relationship last.

Falling in love the right way. It's your life. It's your future. Your happiness is at stake.

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