Do not just blinded by feelings of love of your life will be filled with anguish.
In dating everyone would expect to do with the lover can run smoothly without a hitch until the time the wedding comes. However, it is not always beautiful expectation is realized. In the process to know the character of each other, often couples we finally show the nature of the original character. Sometimes it is made in the entry, whether to accept his weaknesses because it was already in love or had to end. I believe every person must have certain limitations and standardize the criteria for a healthy relationship.
Do not just blinded by feelings of love of your life will be filled with anguish. It is not easy to end a relationship if the relationship has been going on for quite a long time, but according to psychologist Dr. Yvonne Thomas, in fact there are some signs that can be used as a reference if a relationship is it time to end, or they can be maintained. Reported by Sofeminine, if these signs you are experiencing, you should think again before continuing love relationship:
1. Communication is not smooth
Communication is the key to a lasting relationship. If you and your lover rarely communicate, there is no sense of longing and interesting things to talk about, or worse you are no longer able to speak up, it means there is something wrong with your relationship.
2. There is no one else who will listen
When facing a problem, you and your lover each other constantly argue and interrupt. None, both you and your lover trying to be quiet and listen. This could be a sign that your relationship is unhealthy to live start.
3. No longer feel safe
This does not mean you are in danger of being with a lover. You just no longer feel safe when with him. These feelings can emerge as possible, you often feel bullied, either physically or emotionally. Couples who often say rude, arrogant, hitting, cursing, or demean you do not deserve to be preserved.
4. Return the bad habit
Commitment to avoid bad habits, has been made at the beginning of the relationship. But one of you actually break it. This could be a sign that you or a loved one are unhappy. If you want to maintain a relationship, you should revisit the causes and ways to overcome them.
5. Start spying
When the lover started checking your cell phone, check all incoming messages to mobile phones and limit your association, a sign he began to spy on you. This habit of making you uncomfortable and feel no longer have a private life. Instead of replying to spy on him and find things that are not desirable, should be talking about good or disconnect him.
6. Start do not agree with anything he had to say
Healthy relationships, supposedly based on the two-way communication. But if you begin to no longer agree even for small things though that he made, this could be a danger. If for any trivial things you've been fighting with him, how to matters that are the principles?
7. Often feel alone
Despite being with him you still feel lonely or alone. The feeling of happiness that first appears each time was no longer beside you feel. If this happens to you, talk to your partner, what makes you no longer feel comfortable around him. If it continues, ending the relationship might be the best way.
8. Being overly possessive
Possessive can be interpreted as an overreaction on things fair. Possessive appears when the attitude of "concern" over-assessed, either by opposing pairs. Possessive nature or possessive love that is not love which grow up. For the culprit, it can be said is still childish by demanding partner to be as he had hoped. Decide now whether people like him who will become lifelong colleagues you later.
9. Thinking obscene
If at the beginning of the introduction or in the course of your love, one partner always thought to invite you to have sex, or doing indecent things against you, it's time for you to make a firm decision whether to continue the relationship or end it. Couples who can not appreciate your body generally shows no true love that he had but just lust.
Get to know the nature of your current partner and consider carefully in determining who should be the companion of your life, because the decisions you make today determine whether or not a happy domestic life you later.
Do not just blinded by feelings of love of your life will be filled with anguish. It is not easy to end a relationship if the relationship has been going on for quite a long time, but according to psychologist Dr. Yvonne Thomas, in fact there are some signs that can be used as a reference if a relationship is it time to end, or they can be maintained. Reported by Sofeminine, if these signs you are experiencing, you should think again before continuing love relationship:
1. Communication is not smooth
Communication is the key to a lasting relationship. If you and your lover rarely communicate, there is no sense of longing and interesting things to talk about, or worse you are no longer able to speak up, it means there is something wrong with your relationship.
2. There is no one else who will listen
When facing a problem, you and your lover each other constantly argue and interrupt. None, both you and your lover trying to be quiet and listen. This could be a sign that your relationship is unhealthy to live start.
3. No longer feel safe
This does not mean you are in danger of being with a lover. You just no longer feel safe when with him. These feelings can emerge as possible, you often feel bullied, either physically or emotionally. Couples who often say rude, arrogant, hitting, cursing, or demean you do not deserve to be preserved.
4. Return the bad habit
Commitment to avoid bad habits, has been made at the beginning of the relationship. But one of you actually break it. This could be a sign that you or a loved one are unhappy. If you want to maintain a relationship, you should revisit the causes and ways to overcome them.
5. Start spying
When the lover started checking your cell phone, check all incoming messages to mobile phones and limit your association, a sign he began to spy on you. This habit of making you uncomfortable and feel no longer have a private life. Instead of replying to spy on him and find things that are not desirable, should be talking about good or disconnect him.
6. Start do not agree with anything he had to say
Healthy relationships, supposedly based on the two-way communication. But if you begin to no longer agree even for small things though that he made, this could be a danger. If for any trivial things you've been fighting with him, how to matters that are the principles?
7. Often feel alone
Despite being with him you still feel lonely or alone. The feeling of happiness that first appears each time was no longer beside you feel. If this happens to you, talk to your partner, what makes you no longer feel comfortable around him. If it continues, ending the relationship might be the best way.
8. Being overly possessive
Possessive can be interpreted as an overreaction on things fair. Possessive appears when the attitude of "concern" over-assessed, either by opposing pairs. Possessive nature or possessive love that is not love which grow up. For the culprit, it can be said is still childish by demanding partner to be as he had hoped. Decide now whether people like him who will become lifelong colleagues you later.
9. Thinking obscene
If at the beginning of the introduction or in the course of your love, one partner always thought to invite you to have sex, or doing indecent things against you, it's time for you to make a firm decision whether to continue the relationship or end it. Couples who can not appreciate your body generally shows no true love that he had but just lust.
Get to know the nature of your current partner and consider carefully in determining who should be the companion of your life, because the decisions you make today determine whether or not a happy domestic life you later.
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