Whether small or big lie of course, can create confidence diminished. Not infrequently lie trigger the breakdown of a relationship, especially if the truth be known from the mouths of others. And what about you, would you believe with all words of the pair? If you are still hesitant, you may be able to find out if the couple is lying or not through the following tips:
1. Direct inquiry
Directly ask him when you feel suspicious of something that he kept hidden. After knowing the reason also ask how she felt when doing so. If you are falsely accused, they will defend themselves and to tell you the truth. But if you feel guilty about something, he tends to express various emotions.
2. Pay attention to body gestures
Without you knowing it, when laughing, sullen or disagree about something, usually the body will spontaneously react to the body right and left. If only one side of the body expression, he could be trying to cover up what he really felt.
3. Note the eyes
When a natural smile, usually eyeball will also move indicates interest. Look into their eyes when he spoke, if there is no movement in her eyes perhaps he is hiding something from you.
4. Using Voice Calm
You may think when someone is not telling the truth, they will appear anxious or agitated. But when lying, they actually tend to work hard to cover his lies so do not use a lot of gestures and start using a soft tone.
5. Do not ask 'Why?'
Fastest response when you know the couple looks suspicious is asked 'why?' compared to it, the better you ask it with 'What made you do it?'. Questions like it will change the way the other person when you face. Moreover, two-way communication without cornered also could be an introspection after knowing the reasons behind his lies.
6. Avoid Arguing Through Media Communication
Based on the Journal of the American Society for Information and Technology, lie most often come via phone or text message. This is because it is difficult to tell a lie when face to face. To that end, when the couple began acting strangely, not even a fight over the phone or SMS, met him directly and talk face to face.
7. Watch What Happens When You Talk
A liar will usually show the movements of a sign that he felt relieved because managed to hide something. Therefore, you need to pay attention to things that happen after you talk to each other.
1. Direct inquiry
Directly ask him when you feel suspicious of something that he kept hidden. After knowing the reason also ask how she felt when doing so. If you are falsely accused, they will defend themselves and to tell you the truth. But if you feel guilty about something, he tends to express various emotions.
2. Pay attention to body gestures
Without you knowing it, when laughing, sullen or disagree about something, usually the body will spontaneously react to the body right and left. If only one side of the body expression, he could be trying to cover up what he really felt.
3. Note the eyes
When a natural smile, usually eyeball will also move indicates interest. Look into their eyes when he spoke, if there is no movement in her eyes perhaps he is hiding something from you.
4. Using Voice Calm
You may think when someone is not telling the truth, they will appear anxious or agitated. But when lying, they actually tend to work hard to cover his lies so do not use a lot of gestures and start using a soft tone.
5. Do not ask 'Why?'
Fastest response when you know the couple looks suspicious is asked 'why?' compared to it, the better you ask it with 'What made you do it?'. Questions like it will change the way the other person when you face. Moreover, two-way communication without cornered also could be an introspection after knowing the reasons behind his lies.
6. Avoid Arguing Through Media Communication
Based on the Journal of the American Society for Information and Technology, lie most often come via phone or text message. This is because it is difficult to tell a lie when face to face. To that end, when the couple began acting strangely, not even a fight over the phone or SMS, met him directly and talk face to face.
7. Watch What Happens When You Talk
A liar will usually show the movements of a sign that he felt relieved because managed to hide something. Therefore, you need to pay attention to things that happen after you talk to each other.
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