Do you spend more with the smartphone than a lover, even when you're with? If the answer is yes, it seems you are addicted to gadgets.
Technological development can facilitate you to connect with the world but also make yourself as 'absent' in there. Although it sounds trivial, but often the problem of excessive use of smartphones can actually make the relationship to be 'cool'.
This is expressed through two recent studies that show the negative use of smartphones in a real relationship. The first study from the University of Essex found that those who can not get out of the gadgets even when you're together, generally have a poor relationship quality, insecure and have no trust in your partner. They also feel less empathy and caring partner.
Other studies say that the smartphone can divert attention to what is happening today. People tend not to focus and attention to detail that is done or said pair. According to the Mobile Mindset Study, a survey showed 3 out of 5 people who are addicted to gadgets in America can not miss a single hour without a smartphone.
The role of all the technology and social networking that was originally created to bring, it can facilitate the emergence of conflict in the relationship, if used excessively. Before technology destroys your real relationship at this time, here are some reasons to release a smartphone, for the sake of a better relationship quality.
1. Leave Smartphone
When meeting with a partner, make a pact to each other smartphones save each moment together. Couples can talk about more things without a smartphone, for example, discusses what is happening right now in front of you. By doing so, the topic of conversation is running and can increase intimacy.
2. Stay away from the Network Media
The existence of social networks can make you feel close to someone far. You can find out its activity though not often meet, with the share photos, messages or location. But for couples who are there near you today, it could not hurt to stay away from social media moment. Surely the story directly from the person concerned will be discussed more interesting than just photos on social networking, is not it?
3. Expand Outdoor Activities
The most widely used smartphone when you and your spouse sit down together and did not do anything. When there is no discussion topics smartphone can be your savior of conditions 'dead style.' But if you always do, it will not run warm relationship and fun again without two-way communication. To improve the quality of the relationship without the presence of a smartphone, you and your partner can try new outdoor activities. Able to running, playing games, cooking together, or anything that makes you move.
Technological development can facilitate you to connect with the world but also make yourself as 'absent' in there. Although it sounds trivial, but often the problem of excessive use of smartphones can actually make the relationship to be 'cool'.
This is expressed through two recent studies that show the negative use of smartphones in a real relationship. The first study from the University of Essex found that those who can not get out of the gadgets even when you're together, generally have a poor relationship quality, insecure and have no trust in your partner. They also feel less empathy and caring partner.
Other studies say that the smartphone can divert attention to what is happening today. People tend not to focus and attention to detail that is done or said pair. According to the Mobile Mindset Study, a survey showed 3 out of 5 people who are addicted to gadgets in America can not miss a single hour without a smartphone.
The role of all the technology and social networking that was originally created to bring, it can facilitate the emergence of conflict in the relationship, if used excessively. Before technology destroys your real relationship at this time, here are some reasons to release a smartphone, for the sake of a better relationship quality.
1. Leave Smartphone
When meeting with a partner, make a pact to each other smartphones save each moment together. Couples can talk about more things without a smartphone, for example, discusses what is happening right now in front of you. By doing so, the topic of conversation is running and can increase intimacy.
2. Stay away from the Network Media
The existence of social networks can make you feel close to someone far. You can find out its activity though not often meet, with the share photos, messages or location. But for couples who are there near you today, it could not hurt to stay away from social media moment. Surely the story directly from the person concerned will be discussed more interesting than just photos on social networking, is not it?
3. Expand Outdoor Activities
The most widely used smartphone when you and your spouse sit down together and did not do anything. When there is no discussion topics smartphone can be your savior of conditions 'dead style.' But if you always do, it will not run warm relationship and fun again without two-way communication. To improve the quality of the relationship without the presence of a smartphone, you and your partner can try new outdoor activities. Able to running, playing games, cooking together, or anything that makes you move.
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