Kamis, 04 Desember 2014

Online Dating Can Lead to a real love?





Are you alone? Are you bored? Do you feel compelled to stop reading this and go find some friends who are 'real', do some things 'real' and live in a 'reality'? You do it because you have to admit that in twenty years we are given another reality, another alternative to communicate between ourselves, Life Virtual World.

Yes, but not your own in reality both this and still need some real friends? Or do you get it regularly to chat with all kinds of people on the Internet? Maybe you'll even find your soul mate like that? That special someone will be sitting next to you and accompany you when you're sad, someone is right for you, a real refreshment after all the disasters on a date in 'real life' you. Can the Internet provide a safe environment for dating even the worst of the worst in trying to find true love?

But online dating can be a satisfactory alternative to go out and meet people in person? And what else can we do when they fall in love with someone who we met through an online dating site?

People have fallen in love since the beginning of time. Love is the most intense emotions and keystone, emotions that make us survive in difficult times, which gives meaning to our lives. The question is Have people developed enough to embrace alternative trend that is happening around us, the trend of online dating. And if this trend is an evolution or process deviations indescribable feeling that fall in love?

We must admit that we are afraid. When the love we always fear. But if the Internet helps us little to overcome fear to appeal to the other gender to have the opportunity to reinvent ourselves and limit the information that we share. Does it help us to choose when we have access to millions of options or whether we remain skeptical due to the fact that there are millions of false choices found hiding in the Internet dating site? Do we ever feel comfortable enough to open up enough to allow the possibility of falling in love with a man who chatted with us? And if we will ever really know him? Could we?

Love and especially real love culminate in marriage, which in turn is based on the institution of love. If we examine the history, we can see that the divorce rate is much higher today than in the past. Does that tell us that we are doing something wrong? Whether it is the result of living life in the fast lane, the couple did not have time to communicate between them? Not watering the plants that have grown from the seeds of love ... what results we expect? Can the Internet help us to change this?

There are two things that separates us from the animals, we can communicate and feel the love. Is it possible that the two pairs? Do we have to slow down a bit and think about what is missing in our relationship? Not the most common answer to this question is communication? Can the Internet help us to make the communication into something that does not need to worry about and help love grow into a communication backbone. Then we will only have to worry about what we say. Is not that easy? Or we will remain blind to anything other than the face?

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