When the newly established relationship, feelings of love usually often so turbulent and often makes a person not want to see the bad side of his partner. When the already deep feelings of love, then the things that you have been granted an effect and affect relationships.
Actually, most people know when to find the signs are not good from her partner. But sometimes because on the basis of love, they expect good things it can not be changed or not be a problem for them.
What are the signs are not good that you should be aware since the beginning of a love relationship is established? Consider the following description:
1. Violence In The Form Of Anything
Men who have done violence, although only a few times should be avoided. Violence in relationships can continue to marriage or domestic violence (domestic violence). It does not have to physical violence, but it can also herbs. For example, he often hurt you with his words were harsh. Are in abusive relationships will only make you keep gaping wounds and getting in from time to time. Nothing better than maintaining a lover who likes hitting, cursing or throw rant every time. If you still want to be with a lover who resort to violence or in doubt leave it, you should seek professional help to get enlightenment.
2. Emotional and Angry for no apparent reason
The man who is angry over trivial things you should look out for. Although the result is not as severe as physical attacks, but verbal attacks can disrupt your mental state. If he often yelled at, berate or belittle you then it is a sign that he's not the right guy.
3. Not Honest
Little lies like praise your clothes so that you are happy still acceptable. However you need to be careful also in accepting this lie because it may be continued into the first things you think is trivial as well. As regarding its existence, activities, friends or even worse the past.
Actually, most people know when to find the signs are not good from her partner. But sometimes because on the basis of love, they expect good things it can not be changed or not be a problem for them.
What are the signs are not good that you should be aware since the beginning of a love relationship is established? Consider the following description:
1. Violence In The Form Of Anything
Men who have done violence, although only a few times should be avoided. Violence in relationships can continue to marriage or domestic violence (domestic violence). It does not have to physical violence, but it can also herbs. For example, he often hurt you with his words were harsh. Are in abusive relationships will only make you keep gaping wounds and getting in from time to time. Nothing better than maintaining a lover who likes hitting, cursing or throw rant every time. If you still want to be with a lover who resort to violence or in doubt leave it, you should seek professional help to get enlightenment.
2. Emotional and Angry for no apparent reason
The man who is angry over trivial things you should look out for. Although the result is not as severe as physical attacks, but verbal attacks can disrupt your mental state. If he often yelled at, berate or belittle you then it is a sign that he's not the right guy.
3. Not Honest
Little lies like praise your clothes so that you are happy still acceptable. However you need to be careful also in accepting this lie because it may be continued into the first things you think is trivial as well. As regarding its existence, activities, friends or even worse the past.
Trust becomes important in a relationship. Once trust is stained, it is difficult to build it again. Therefore, rather than over time become an issue of trust in the relationship, you should leave off the love relationship from the start if he's often known to lie.
4. Hurting
Every relationship must have their ups and downs. But if you are more likely to feel unhappy, or even remember the last time you and your partner to have fun and love each other, then there is no point to survive. Are you still with him because it wanted and loved, or just afraid of the status of the single? Think carefully.
A relationship should also be constructive is to make the individual more developed. But when it leads to destructive things, for example, one of the emotional distress, trauma, got physical injuries, personality so low self-esteem and self appreciation so negative, you should end the relationship.
4. Hurting
Every relationship must have their ups and downs. But if you are more likely to feel unhappy, or even remember the last time you and your partner to have fun and love each other, then there is no point to survive. Are you still with him because it wanted and loved, or just afraid of the status of the single? Think carefully.
A relationship should also be constructive is to make the individual more developed. But when it leads to destructive things, for example, one of the emotional distress, trauma, got physical injuries, personality so low self-esteem and self appreciation so negative, you should end the relationship.
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