Here's a familiar story ...
Boy meets girl
Guy gets a girl's phone number
Guys call girls and make a first date.
Guy appeared at the door of the girl with flowers (or fancy gift), took him to an expensive restaurant and talked about how he really liked it.
Girl quickly put an end date and do not answer the phone call the guy.
It's familiar because it is something that almost every man to do at some point in her dating life.
The truth is we all have been programmed to behave like this. In a romantic movie on average, male characters win the affection of a girl by recognizing his enduring love. And if you ever watched one of the movies with a girl, you will see how emotional and delays him.
So naturally, it seems logical to think that the romantic movement in some of your first date is the best way to attract his interest.
The question is Should you be romantic when you first meet a woman?
The short answer is NO. And this is the reason why ...
Men and women look at dating in a different way. We as men pretty much knew that we liked a girl before dating begins. If he was interesting and seemed interested, we already hooked.
For us, some of the first date is a time where we are obsessed with proving ourselves (and maybe a bit of action)! And one of the ways that have been proven to work doing the movement "romantic" we see "work" in Hollywood movies.
Women on the other hand, look at dating as a way to "qualify" a man. Sure he might be interested, but actually he is also aware that he is looking for certain qualities that can eliminate man as a potential dating partner.
ONE step one and you will get the sentence "We Friendship Only Yes"!
So, when you are too strong with the romantic movement, you show that you really do not care who he is as a person. Instead you actually submit your strengths and show that you've wanted him before he even prove himself.
A woman wants to feel like she got a man's interest. And not solely because of his appearance. While the woman was still trying to find out about the man, he had already shown interest.
So what women want from men?
The answer is all women looking for one main thing:
SEXUAL ATTRACTION
Sexual attraction is the feeling that he can be when he is with a man who resonated in her mind EMOTIONAL side.
You can not make this feeling to buy a gift or to be romantic. This action can only speak to the LOGICAL of mind.
To create sexual attraction, you have to show the quality of a person who makes a woman feel happy and excited. For example, the quality of cover
- Challenging her actions and statements
- Use humor to tease and banter
- Displays spontaneous attitude
- Demonstrate a high level of confidence
- Being trusted with little danger
- Displays independence in your life
- Make her feel important
Final quality could be a little confusing.
Most men act romantic because they think they are trying to make her feel important. This is because at first he did not do anything to prove himself.
Thus, you want to show that you are interested and make her feel important to familiarize you with him. So, while you may not appear on some of your first date with a stack of roses, you must show your interest if she pass the test and meet your standards.
In other words, if you have fun and he meets the quality you are looking for, then you can begin to show that he is getting your approval.
Boy meets girl
Guy gets a girl's phone number
Guys call girls and make a first date.
Guy appeared at the door of the girl with flowers (or fancy gift), took him to an expensive restaurant and talked about how he really liked it.
Girl quickly put an end date and do not answer the phone call the guy.
It's familiar because it is something that almost every man to do at some point in her dating life.
The truth is we all have been programmed to behave like this. In a romantic movie on average, male characters win the affection of a girl by recognizing his enduring love. And if you ever watched one of the movies with a girl, you will see how emotional and delays him.
So naturally, it seems logical to think that the romantic movement in some of your first date is the best way to attract his interest.
The question is Should you be romantic when you first meet a woman?
The short answer is NO. And this is the reason why ...
Men and women look at dating in a different way. We as men pretty much knew that we liked a girl before dating begins. If he was interesting and seemed interested, we already hooked.
For us, some of the first date is a time where we are obsessed with proving ourselves (and maybe a bit of action)! And one of the ways that have been proven to work doing the movement "romantic" we see "work" in Hollywood movies.
Women on the other hand, look at dating as a way to "qualify" a man. Sure he might be interested, but actually he is also aware that he is looking for certain qualities that can eliminate man as a potential dating partner.
ONE step one and you will get the sentence "We Friendship Only Yes"!
So, when you are too strong with the romantic movement, you show that you really do not care who he is as a person. Instead you actually submit your strengths and show that you've wanted him before he even prove himself.
A woman wants to feel like she got a man's interest. And not solely because of his appearance. While the woman was still trying to find out about the man, he had already shown interest.
So what women want from men?
The answer is all women looking for one main thing:
SEXUAL ATTRACTION
Sexual attraction is the feeling that he can be when he is with a man who resonated in her mind EMOTIONAL side.
You can not make this feeling to buy a gift or to be romantic. This action can only speak to the LOGICAL of mind.
To create sexual attraction, you have to show the quality of a person who makes a woman feel happy and excited. For example, the quality of cover
- Challenging her actions and statements
- Use humor to tease and banter
- Displays spontaneous attitude
- Demonstrate a high level of confidence
- Being trusted with little danger
- Displays independence in your life
- Make her feel important
Final quality could be a little confusing.
Most men act romantic because they think they are trying to make her feel important. This is because at first he did not do anything to prove himself.
Thus, you want to show that you are interested and make her feel important to familiarize you with him. So, while you may not appear on some of your first date with a stack of roses, you must show your interest if she pass the test and meet your standards.
In other words, if you have fun and he meets the quality you are looking for, then you can begin to show that he is getting your approval.
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