Once a cheat, always will remain a cheaters? This proverb may be true, and has been proven scientifically. Based on the research published in the Journal of Research in Personality, women who get lover to take it from another woman, likely will return cheated by the same man.
Scientists analyzed data from three studies of the relationship is done separately. Of the three studies, they find their similarities. As many as 75 percent of men and women in the United States ever, at least once tried to destroy a person's relationship or keep him away from lover to be with him. Approximately 50 percent of them claimed to successfully 'steal' someone else's lover romance associated with it.
But once won a lover of others, does not rule out the possibility that men and women usurper it also will experience the same thing. As quoted from the Women's Health, the study also revealed that people who had an affair as the result of an affair are less likely to commit, less satisfied and less trying to romance now.
People who cheated tend to expect a relationship that lived at this time could be better than a previous relationship. As a result they were hoping girlfriend now (which is gained by cheating) also have better quality than previous lover who had cheated her.
The problem is, when the new lover did not match expectations then he could easily turn into a woman or another man. The risk of infidelity also tend to be higher than in the past couple of romance that 'clean' (never cheated on). This is because people who never or love affair tend to have a view of 'the grass looks greener than the grass itself'. Pain is not satisfied that trigger someone to tend to be faithful in relationships.
The results of this study certainly difficult to generalize. Case of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie may be the exception. Although their relationship is established because Brad has been cheating on Jennifer Aniston, the two remained together for almost nine years. Now Brad and Jolie has also been married and take care of six children.
Without intending to judge or strike price, the study could be 'prod' that men and women are more selective in choosing a partner and not be blinded by love. Knowing a person's background before deciding to formally establish the relationship may be needed to prevent future disappointment later. This study could also be a kind of warning not to 'playing with fire' in a relationship, if you do not want to let down.
Scientists analyzed data from three studies of the relationship is done separately. Of the three studies, they find their similarities. As many as 75 percent of men and women in the United States ever, at least once tried to destroy a person's relationship or keep him away from lover to be with him. Approximately 50 percent of them claimed to successfully 'steal' someone else's lover romance associated with it.
But once won a lover of others, does not rule out the possibility that men and women usurper it also will experience the same thing. As quoted from the Women's Health, the study also revealed that people who had an affair as the result of an affair are less likely to commit, less satisfied and less trying to romance now.
People who cheated tend to expect a relationship that lived at this time could be better than a previous relationship. As a result they were hoping girlfriend now (which is gained by cheating) also have better quality than previous lover who had cheated her.
The problem is, when the new lover did not match expectations then he could easily turn into a woman or another man. The risk of infidelity also tend to be higher than in the past couple of romance that 'clean' (never cheated on). This is because people who never or love affair tend to have a view of 'the grass looks greener than the grass itself'. Pain is not satisfied that trigger someone to tend to be faithful in relationships.
The results of this study certainly difficult to generalize. Case of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie may be the exception. Although their relationship is established because Brad has been cheating on Jennifer Aniston, the two remained together for almost nine years. Now Brad and Jolie has also been married and take care of six children.
Without intending to judge or strike price, the study could be 'prod' that men and women are more selective in choosing a partner and not be blinded by love. Knowing a person's background before deciding to formally establish the relationship may be needed to prevent future disappointment later. This study could also be a kind of warning not to 'playing with fire' in a relationship, if you do not want to let down.
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