Expression of infidelity in marriage is often referred to in disgust. Infidelity is often considered to be a result of excessive passion and absolute lack of self-control. Act of someone cheating on her marriage partner is viewed as a crime. But the reality is different. Taking the view that hard about this problem may often be justified. When someone cheating in marriage, usually the culmination of a variety of problems. People who cheat, generally, contrary to popular belief, weak and thrown into this position. This is not to provide a defense to anyone who is cheating on a spouse, but to see things in perspective and find an honest and credible answers to the question, "Why is infidelity in marriage happen?" The two most common causes are as follows.
1). One party is indifferent to the needs of others:
Marriage is a relationship with mutual expectations. Husband expect certain things from his wife as also the wife to her husband. Expectations range of care and treatment for sexual satisfaction. When one party discovers that she is not met expectations, there is a strong possibility that the person is captivated by others who will offer what has been lost in the marriage. Not trying to justify the affair, but to show a realistic situation, to answer the question 'Why is infidelity in marriage happen? "We are all human beings are controlled by our emotions.
2). One party tries to control the other party too much:
There is an example of a man with his beloved wife who has devoted herself to her husband look for another woman. The wife may feel justified in questioning why her husband was unfaithful to her even though she gave him everything that could be expected of a wife. The problem could be that the wife was to dominate her husband, gave him a bit of freedom. This may be the result of a possessive mentality or fear of losing her husband if he does not hold it in the "cage". But ironically, this produces the opposite effect because her husband hated the way she dominates and landed herself into the arms of another woman just to prove to himself that he can not be dominated by his wife. The same thing could happen to the wife if the husband loving his wife's limited space to be himself.
Without understanding this problem, one can only continue to wonder, 'Why is infidelity in marriage happen?'
1). One party is indifferent to the needs of others:
Marriage is a relationship with mutual expectations. Husband expect certain things from his wife as also the wife to her husband. Expectations range of care and treatment for sexual satisfaction. When one party discovers that she is not met expectations, there is a strong possibility that the person is captivated by others who will offer what has been lost in the marriage. Not trying to justify the affair, but to show a realistic situation, to answer the question 'Why is infidelity in marriage happen? "We are all human beings are controlled by our emotions.
2). One party tries to control the other party too much:
There is an example of a man with his beloved wife who has devoted herself to her husband look for another woman. The wife may feel justified in questioning why her husband was unfaithful to her even though she gave him everything that could be expected of a wife. The problem could be that the wife was to dominate her husband, gave him a bit of freedom. This may be the result of a possessive mentality or fear of losing her husband if he does not hold it in the "cage". But ironically, this produces the opposite effect because her husband hated the way she dominates and landed herself into the arms of another woman just to prove to himself that he can not be dominated by his wife. The same thing could happen to the wife if the husband loving his wife's limited space to be himself.
Without understanding this problem, one can only continue to wonder, 'Why is infidelity in marriage happen?'
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