Good communication is one key to strengthen the relationship. However, the communication should not always be done with words or speech, but touch. A study reported by Cosmopolitan Australia shows, when you want to communicate something important to a lover, just touch on certain parts of his body.
Touch for five seconds, can convey your point two times faster than through words. According to the study, some touch in certain areas can be more effectively express emotions such as happiness, love or anger.
"Touch is one of the most primitive way to communicate, but also the most effective. It is the first language we learn as babies, so instinctively we can understand quickly," said David Givens, Ph.D., director of the Centre of Nonverbal Studies.
By gender, fewer men than women speechless. Thus, according to David, using gestures when communicating with men would be more effective than you need to talk at length. Touches such as what can be used to make him understand what you mean, without having to say: 'We need to talk?' This eight-way.
1. Apologize
Touched and squeezed his knee when apologizing would make her feel emotionally connected with you. So he will be more receptive to what you have to say. When you lengthen a hand to touch his knees, auto body slightly bent forward.
"This posture will give a signal to the brain that you are truly sorry and hope he forgive. He will feel appreciated and will more easily accept an apology from you," said David.
2. Ask Him Do something she dislikes
Grasp and lift his hands close to your chest, then position your hands on one hand. This movement projecting power and control, by placing one hand between your hands, then without him knowing you have given a signal to him that in the current issue, you're the dominant party. The result, he is so much easier to persuade and to placate you.
Touch for five seconds, can convey your point two times faster than through words. According to the study, some touch in certain areas can be more effectively express emotions such as happiness, love or anger.
"Touch is one of the most primitive way to communicate, but also the most effective. It is the first language we learn as babies, so instinctively we can understand quickly," said David Givens, Ph.D., director of the Centre of Nonverbal Studies.
By gender, fewer men than women speechless. Thus, according to David, using gestures when communicating with men would be more effective than you need to talk at length. Touches such as what can be used to make him understand what you mean, without having to say: 'We need to talk?' This eight-way.
1. Apologize
Touched and squeezed his knee when apologizing would make her feel emotionally connected with you. So he will be more receptive to what you have to say. When you lengthen a hand to touch his knees, auto body slightly bent forward.
"This posture will give a signal to the brain that you are truly sorry and hope he forgive. He will feel appreciated and will more easily accept an apology from you," said David.
2. Ask Him Do something she dislikes
Grasp and lift his hands close to your chest, then position your hands on one hand. This movement projecting power and control, by placing one hand between your hands, then without him knowing you have given a signal to him that in the current issue, you're the dominant party. The result, he is so much easier to persuade and to placate you.
3. Soothing When He Screwed
As he stressed, depressed or feel his life ruined by a problem, rub-rub your hand around the back of the neck, spine and hair quickly. This movement can be done to show affection, and make him feel safer and calmer.
"Neck and back is an area where we tend to put the burden of stress on the body. Whatever her fret, neck pain will usually make. Giving a touch in this area will help him be more relaxed. Give a little massage while doing it," says Tiffany Field, director of the Touch Research Institute at the University of Miami.
4. Avoiding Arguments or When She Angry
Place your hands on his shoulders, elbows straight. This action like pressing 'pause' in the middle of a heated argument. The arms are kept straight will reflect the strength and make you more attention partner. In addition, this movement also helps soothe him, because the shoulder is an ideal area to the touch when the situation tense. Touch on the shoulder of the body relax the tightened. Your touch will remind him of the emotional bond between you both and defuse anger.
5. Shows Sense of Love
Gently place the palm of your hand on her cheek. The face is a very sensitive area in a man's body. This section there are many hair follicles that make his face more sensitive than women. The touch of the hand on the cheek is also considered as a romantic movement, and this is usually done when the guy wants to kiss her partner.
"The face is the most emotionally intimate areas of the body. So holding his face up close will communicate feeling very deep and close bond between you and him," said Tiffany.
As he stressed, depressed or feel his life ruined by a problem, rub-rub your hand around the back of the neck, spine and hair quickly. This movement can be done to show affection, and make him feel safer and calmer.
"Neck and back is an area where we tend to put the burden of stress on the body. Whatever her fret, neck pain will usually make. Giving a touch in this area will help him be more relaxed. Give a little massage while doing it," says Tiffany Field, director of the Touch Research Institute at the University of Miami.
4. Avoiding Arguments or When She Angry
Place your hands on his shoulders, elbows straight. This action like pressing 'pause' in the middle of a heated argument. The arms are kept straight will reflect the strength and make you more attention partner. In addition, this movement also helps soothe him, because the shoulder is an ideal area to the touch when the situation tense. Touch on the shoulder of the body relax the tightened. Your touch will remind him of the emotional bond between you both and defuse anger.
5. Shows Sense of Love
Gently place the palm of your hand on her cheek. The face is a very sensitive area in a man's body. This section there are many hair follicles that make his face more sensitive than women. The touch of the hand on the cheek is also considered as a romantic movement, and this is usually done when the guy wants to kiss her partner.
"The face is the most emotionally intimate areas of the body. So holding his face up close will communicate feeling very deep and close bond between you and him," said Tiffany.
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