There is no way to predict whether true love can come into our lives or not.
It is impossible to try to determine the exact time and place where it will happen. All we know is that when it happens, we know it is the love that we wait. That is why when and if something goes wrong with the whole experience of love, we experience pain. Why true love hurt and we really can protect ourselves?
When expectations and reality does not meet
Many of us have mistaken beliefs about love. This brings us to create false expectations about the whole experience. In our minds, we construct an idealized version of what we think of as true love should be and how it should happen in our lives.
The problem is, the reality of true love is much more complicated and very often, far from perfect experience we have created in our minds. When hope and love collide real experience, we hurt and disappointed.
What we do not realize is that by creating a false representation of how we should love our minds, we are actually making ourselves more vulnerable to pain, just because we are not prepared for the reality.
When losing cause pain
Once we experience true love, we do all that we can to keep it in our lives because we are aware of the value and importance. We invest in it, giving time, energy and goodwill us.
For some people, it can sometimes drain. This is why if love is lost, we feel very lost until we hurt. This is because we know in our hearts that the experience was unique and probably never happen again, at least not in the same way.
Protect yourself: is it possible?
One unique thing about the experience of true love is that it allows you to open up to another human. This action is intended to express yourself so others can get to know you. Openness is also expected of you, especially if you are in a relationship.
The drawback is that by allowing other people to find out about you, you leave certain parts of yourself open and completely vulnerable. When your lover make a mistake, it can hurt you in many ways.
But can you really do to protect yourself?
The irony is that the only way you can prevent hurt by true love is rejected. But by doing so, you lose. So the key is to let love get in, do their best to keep it, and if it hurts you, accept it as a part of the whole experience.
It is impossible to try to determine the exact time and place where it will happen. All we know is that when it happens, we know it is the love that we wait. That is why when and if something goes wrong with the whole experience of love, we experience pain. Why true love hurt and we really can protect ourselves?
When expectations and reality does not meet
Many of us have mistaken beliefs about love. This brings us to create false expectations about the whole experience. In our minds, we construct an idealized version of what we think of as true love should be and how it should happen in our lives.
The problem is, the reality of true love is much more complicated and very often, far from perfect experience we have created in our minds. When hope and love collide real experience, we hurt and disappointed.
What we do not realize is that by creating a false representation of how we should love our minds, we are actually making ourselves more vulnerable to pain, just because we are not prepared for the reality.
When losing cause pain
Once we experience true love, we do all that we can to keep it in our lives because we are aware of the value and importance. We invest in it, giving time, energy and goodwill us.
For some people, it can sometimes drain. This is why if love is lost, we feel very lost until we hurt. This is because we know in our hearts that the experience was unique and probably never happen again, at least not in the same way.
Protect yourself: is it possible?
One unique thing about the experience of true love is that it allows you to open up to another human. This action is intended to express yourself so others can get to know you. Openness is also expected of you, especially if you are in a relationship.
The drawback is that by allowing other people to find out about you, you leave certain parts of yourself open and completely vulnerable. When your lover make a mistake, it can hurt you in many ways.
But can you really do to protect yourself?
The irony is that the only way you can prevent hurt by true love is rejected. But by doing so, you lose. So the key is to let love get in, do their best to keep it, and if it hurts you, accept it as a part of the whole experience.
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