Approval comes from the ego, at any time. If you accept someone or something or direction, or whatever it is, it is because it is what you yourself would choose. Approval is when your intellectual opinion coincides with something that you see in the world. There is a place for consent, indeed. For example, it is important that you agree to the environment in which you work, where you invest so much time. If the environment is not in line with your values, then you will not be able to devote yourself there honestly.
However, what was discussed today is a very important distinction, namely distinguish between approval and love. You can only change anything from love. Starting with disapproval or hate or judgment or criticism does not create sufficient energy to cause a miracle.
How wonders produced
Wonders produced in the world and at all times. You do not know how wonderful you really are a few changes. You do not say they are a miracle because they do not happen immediately. And you do not say they are a miracle because they do not happen to swing the stick, or the laying on of hands. But just because they manifest from time to time, and through love and honesty are very brave, do not make them less magical.
You will see the magic in you if you could see yourself from six, seven, years ago and put it right next to yourself today, right next to it. The same reaction, and compare them. In the same way are in the world, the relationship with the body, lifestyle, what happens in your mental space, and so on. Then you will see it is a miracle. But the miracle can not be taken from the assessment of any kind, ranging from hatred to mild embarrassment or, somewhere in between.
Wonders need love. And you can love something, or someone, or a part of you without approving it. Which means, strange but true, that you can allow yourself to love something even when you realize that there are things better for it. Most people, when they recognize that this intelligence could be better, immediately reacted with some kind of assessment or dislike or withdrawal of any inadequate or inaccurate. And when you do that, you have the power to make changes is reduced.
Focus on compliance matters, not change them
And this is why instead of dealing with yourself and the world through constant framework of what needs to be changed, instead of focusing on trying to change things, focus on meeting them entirely, without a wall between you and it, without defense, or protective, or presumption, or assessment, or the experience of the past, but to fulfill it, or that person, or a part of you, with your eyes open. You will find things in you, in your partner, in your world that you can better recognize. That's the value of your intelligence. This is one aspect that distinguishes the human species from several other species on this planet. You aspirational, directed evolution in a conscious way, not in the DNA like animals.
So instead of telling you that you have to somehow put your intelligence, clear your mind, accept everything as it is without any thought of improvement. Not at all, you can not do that, it's not real. You must be able to withstand the paradoxical state of mind. One that acknowledges how things can be improved and made more good in you, in the world, and at the same time love as fully as now.
However, what was discussed today is a very important distinction, namely distinguish between approval and love. You can only change anything from love. Starting with disapproval or hate or judgment or criticism does not create sufficient energy to cause a miracle.
How wonders produced
Wonders produced in the world and at all times. You do not know how wonderful you really are a few changes. You do not say they are a miracle because they do not happen immediately. And you do not say they are a miracle because they do not happen to swing the stick, or the laying on of hands. But just because they manifest from time to time, and through love and honesty are very brave, do not make them less magical.
You will see the magic in you if you could see yourself from six, seven, years ago and put it right next to yourself today, right next to it. The same reaction, and compare them. In the same way are in the world, the relationship with the body, lifestyle, what happens in your mental space, and so on. Then you will see it is a miracle. But the miracle can not be taken from the assessment of any kind, ranging from hatred to mild embarrassment or, somewhere in between.
Wonders need love. And you can love something, or someone, or a part of you without approving it. Which means, strange but true, that you can allow yourself to love something even when you realize that there are things better for it. Most people, when they recognize that this intelligence could be better, immediately reacted with some kind of assessment or dislike or withdrawal of any inadequate or inaccurate. And when you do that, you have the power to make changes is reduced.
Focus on compliance matters, not change them
And this is why instead of dealing with yourself and the world through constant framework of what needs to be changed, instead of focusing on trying to change things, focus on meeting them entirely, without a wall between you and it, without defense, or protective, or presumption, or assessment, or the experience of the past, but to fulfill it, or that person, or a part of you, with your eyes open. You will find things in you, in your partner, in your world that you can better recognize. That's the value of your intelligence. This is one aspect that distinguishes the human species from several other species on this planet. You aspirational, directed evolution in a conscious way, not in the DNA like animals.
So instead of telling you that you have to somehow put your intelligence, clear your mind, accept everything as it is without any thought of improvement. Not at all, you can not do that, it's not real. You must be able to withstand the paradoxical state of mind. One that acknowledges how things can be improved and made more good in you, in the world, and at the same time love as fully as now.
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