Selasa, 02 Desember 2014

search Love


What we all seek in life is a soul mate, someone to share life with you! But even if we find a life partner, it takes a lot of hard work, dedication and consistency to maintain a healthy relationship. Mutual sacrifices must be made and patience is the key to success. Of course, finding love is not the easiest thing in the world. There are many reasons why it is hard to pursue love. Some of us do not know where to look; others feel disappointed with love as painful, while others are busy love themselves more than anything else.

To begin, beyond the common belief, the number one reason why a person can not enjoy love in a soul mate is selfishness! Love is about mutual respect, trust and understanding, which means that you will never be able to love someone unless you get rid of selfishness. We as humans want to control everything all the time, so when love comes into our lives, we feel like we got lost in the woods! Our ego will not allow us to believe in someone and that was bad news. True humans are social creatures with a high level of communication skills. That is the source of all our achievements and love is one of them. Love is the lack of control and logic and only if you try it yourself, you will be able to feel the vibration.

It is not wrong to think of one person during the day or feel palpitations every time you see a certain person; that's love! It is not easy to let go when you're not used; share your life with another person can be scary, but you have to try; feels wonderful if you have someone who cares about you and will do anything to make you happy. The second reason why we could not find a soul mate is because we look for it in the wrong place. Sometimes, we even do not know what we really want and some times we do not realize that the person we are looking for is right in front of our eyes! Most of the time, we often try to find the perfect partner; so we are looking for people who might not even exist!

Of course, this problem can be solved easily; determine what you want and need right! Much easier to find something specific. After all, it's your life and you can have anyone you want in life! Make sure that you will not soon change his mind; that's why you have to be very careful from the beginning!

However, thinking too much can cause some other problems that do not realize that the love of your life in front of you!

Less it means more in some cases, and love it, including in this case. Before you get ready for the long journey in search of love, look around you and notice because there is the possibility that one of your best friend may be a candidate for a wife! In addition, a good friend always know us better; advantages and disadvantages, likes and dislikes! People who are experiencing a painful breakup in the past might think twice about a long-term relationship. Indeed, bad things happen and the only thing we can do is deal with it! Maybe you lose trust in people or love after your broken heart, but you can not live without love and someone! So it's okay to take some time after the break up, but you can not give up. Every day is a new day and you never know when you're in luck. No matter how hard to get up after a big disappointment, you have to step up for your own good!

In short, love is a drug that we all should try at least once so that we can say that our life is complete! Love can be found everywhere and that's the point. Love makes our lives better and much more fun to live.

Not easy to find, but when you find it, you will realize how lucky you are. Sometimes love can come unexpected, but that's what makes love so special!

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