Kamis, 04 Desember 2014

Love: Good and Bad


Love, usually defined as "a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child or friend" is an emotion that is sought after by almost everyone. If it were not for this sensation, the world will not be like now and many people will agree. True love is considered as unconditional love and loving but also has the ability to be cruel and destructive. This world is driven by emotion, whether it's good or bad. Most of the wounded by love at that point in their lives, yet still highly desired by a large number of people. Some look for their lifetime, whether it is in the "mate", son, friend, brother, or perhaps even a pet. There are also other people who "love" an object or materialistic ideas and will do anything to keep it.

So how do people know if they are caught in a storm this emotion? Feeling of fulfillment, attachment, affection, tenderness, or admiration for their love objects are the usual symptoms. Many believe that there is "a thin line between love and madness", and maybe they're right. Love usually means doing whatever is necessary to keep the object of affection or liking them happy and satisfied. Does it give an organ for couples, reject the offer dream job just to spend more time with the kids, or change plans to embark on the adventure of life with your closest friends, it is that the willingness to do anything and everything possible just to show concern and dedication to a special person.

However, there are countless situations in which love can be cruel. Those who fall in love are in a high risk of broken hearts and they were greatly admired one can be disappointed, and hurt. When someone who has put an abundant amount of effort and time to love their partner, their friends, or family and realize that the other party, does not return the same feelings, can create a feeling of sadness that is not desirable. Unfavorable circumstances like this in the past has led to depression, resentment, and sometimes even suicide.

But there are people who love so deep that no matter how sick, they still try to accommodate others and do anything in the hope that one day will be reciprocated feelings. In the worst case scenario, people who "unloved" have the opportunity to be exploited. Love is able to lower the self-esteem or "blinded" someone so they do not act like usually when they are clear. In the worst case, love can cause damage to confidence and well-being of a person permanently.

Above all, love is regarded as the answer to all our problems. Most people want to believe that all they need in this world is love and maybe some of them are true. Are in a difficult situation, but knowing you are loved by someone can ease your burden, even if only a little. Being aware of other beings who can love and care for you forever and unconditionally is an indescribable feeling. And so many people continue to suffer from a broken heart just to achieve the emotional state and hope that all those relationships that involve feelings of love will continue to evolve. Although most of the human race has seen or experienced the harsh consequences of love, their persistence to get it proves how powerful and magical emotions.

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