Rabu, 03 Desember 2014

How to Make Love Survive


A new relationship is often exhilarating, intense, and fun. But how do you create a new relationship turns into love and survive? Although it is not easy to make love last, your hard work in the relationship will lead to a deep and meaningful relationship that can last a lifetime. To make love last, you should appreciate your lover, support, and set aside time for love and romance. If you want to know how to do this, follow these steps.

1. See the best in your love. If you want to make love last, then you should focus on the best quality your partner is not the quality of their worst. Although you can be honest about the quality of the less ideal than your spouse, you should focus on the ability to make you laugh, their intelligence, and their smiles, not how they are always late or that they spend too much time on their mobile phones.

A survey of 470 studies on the compatibility revealed that one of the similarities shared by many long-term relationship is a "positive illusions" that allows people who are in a relationship to see each other in a positive way. It is also known as "positive perspective."
Every day, look for the best in your partner and remind yourself why you are with this extraordinary man.

2. Have compassion for your loved one. It has been proven: the couple who showed loving love to have a happy relationship. To do this, you must learn how to understand why he is angry and sympathetic to their needs, rather than annoyed that they are not in a good mood. Look for opportunities to perform acts of kindness toward your partner and see how much of a positive impact on your relationship.

Surprise your partner with small movements once a day. Does not have to be complicated or costly dime, the time you take to send SMS or leave a little note to tell them how special they can mean more than expensive gifts. When your lover having a bad day, be nice to help him.

3. Appreciate the little things. To make love last, you can not underestimate "the sliding door moments". These are moments that seem unimportant everyday filled with words carelessly thrown back and forth to each other, along with a bit of heartache, frustration, joy, and laughter, fly through our minds and hearts, which can make or break the most important relationships in our lives. Small moments spice up a relationship.

4. Sharing a kiss 6 seconds. Six seconds kiss is one activity that is simple and fun to have to incorporate into your everyday moments with friends. This kiss long enough to feel passionate and romantic, and can serve as a temporary oasis in a busy day.

Greet with affection your partner communicate how important he was to you, reminding him of the good feeling you have for when you are with him.

5. Give your partner the love and attention he needs. When your partner tell that he wants an emotional connection, whether he wants to be hugged or briefly stepped out, try to give him what he needs is not rejected, no matter how busy you are. This time will not often come, and if you want your relationship develops, then you should give your partner affection he needs, so that you can get love and affection in return.

Take time to listen to your partner and to respond to their needs seriously. You can not always give your partner's love and attention he needs, but you can aim to do this much more often.

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