So, you've just met a beautiful girl, fascinated him a little (or a lot), got her number and asked her out on a Friday night. It was cool, but there are many things about dating than that. The first date can be a very good thing, but it also can be a real nightmare if you do not follow some simple steps.
1. Be yourself. It was probably the best advice. Yes, we all like to show off, when we went out for the first time. Serve as a good man often successful, or may even act as a bad boy, if you think that he likes it. However, playing the role is not something for a long term relationship. Sooner or later, the girl you're dating will seek out and find out who you really are. Do not play any role with him, starting from the first date.
2. Be relaxed. You are not going to meet the president, so you do not have to dress formally. That does not mean you should not look like a rich man, but in order to impress a girl, you do not need to put too much effort on your exterior. The interior is all that matters. Remember, if she will love you, it's not because of your clothes. This is because everything else.
3. Being good. There are too many strange people, out there, who think that they will be lucky on the first date. Or, they think that they were sent by God as a gift for women. Keep your ego, listen to a girl and talk to her like a human being. Do not stare "itunya" like a zombie, no one likes it, at least not immediately. When a girl wants something from you, treat him. For example, watching a movie with him would be a good idea.
1. Be yourself. It was probably the best advice. Yes, we all like to show off, when we went out for the first time. Serve as a good man often successful, or may even act as a bad boy, if you think that he likes it. However, playing the role is not something for a long term relationship. Sooner or later, the girl you're dating will seek out and find out who you really are. Do not play any role with him, starting from the first date.
2. Be relaxed. You are not going to meet the president, so you do not have to dress formally. That does not mean you should not look like a rich man, but in order to impress a girl, you do not need to put too much effort on your exterior. The interior is all that matters. Remember, if she will love you, it's not because of your clothes. This is because everything else.
3. Being good. There are too many strange people, out there, who think that they will be lucky on the first date. Or, they think that they were sent by God as a gift for women. Keep your ego, listen to a girl and talk to her like a human being. Do not stare "itunya" like a zombie, no one likes it, at least not immediately. When a girl wants something from you, treat him. For example, watching a movie with him would be a good idea.
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