So, you do something or say something bad to him? Do you want to apologize to him in a direct way to be honest, or other more complicated way? Do you need him back? If you really love this guy and can not imagine life without him, this is how to apologize to him.
1. Think about your apology and really get to the bottom of the problem. Anyone can say sorry, not everyone can truly and support it with a solution. Be aware that you might expect your boyfriend to think about the actions or words for a few moments before apologizing to her. Before you pull out your apology, have solid answers about:
- Why do you do what you do, or say what you say, which makes it sad.
- The apology came from the aspects of your personality which.
- How do you plan to fix it so that both you and your girlfriend will not go through the pain again.
2. Start with a simple "I'm sorry. "Do hmmm, or tries to apologize without actually saying" sorry ". Your boyfriend may want to hear the exact words, so be prepared to say.
3. If she asks you to go, tell him you want to apologize. Tell him you really want to fix this and make your relationship back on track. Do not shout or cutting words, you might scare him and make things become worse.
If he seems really upset and did not want to respond apology now, let it. Ask him when you can call in a few days.
4. Calmly explain to him the reasons behind your actions. If you think about the problem (Step 1), you have to know what and why you are doing wrong, and how you can fix it in the future.
Example: "I know I have to apologize I should not lie to you or your parents about my age, I knew it was the wrong thing to do, but I do not want you or they do not believe me because I'm older. I really care about you and your parents, so I plan to apologize to them directly. I understand if you or they are still mad at me after this ".
Example: "I should not see Anita as I did I know that he's your friend, and I never do anything to jeopardize my relationship with you or your relationship with him, I have no excuse for my actions, just an explanation: a lot of guys look at girls. Now I know it's really bothering you, I will try my best to not make the same mistake again. "
Example: "I'm sorry for yelling, I will not even repeat it. It was wrong and demeaning. I admit that I should not let slip. . . . I realize that you might change my opinion on that basis, so I will try to do everything I can to fix it ".
5. Give him time to respond. Let him ask all the questions that need answers. Respond honestly. Some things to remember when you let interrogating you:
- Do not blame. Even if you are not the only ones at fault, not a good idea to blame. An apology is not going to work if you do it. Let him express how angry, frustrated, or upset him.
- Do not try to convince him not to be so, he has a right to it. This will make her feel better.
- Do not try to show affection at this moment, it's probably still a bit too early. That means no kiss, hug, or holding hands unless he started.
6. Tell him you will give him time if he needs it. Repeat your apology again briefly and walk away if he wanted some time alone. Respect how to respond.
1. Think about your apology and really get to the bottom of the problem. Anyone can say sorry, not everyone can truly and support it with a solution. Be aware that you might expect your boyfriend to think about the actions or words for a few moments before apologizing to her. Before you pull out your apology, have solid answers about:
- Why do you do what you do, or say what you say, which makes it sad.
- The apology came from the aspects of your personality which.
- How do you plan to fix it so that both you and your girlfriend will not go through the pain again.
2. Start with a simple "I'm sorry. "Do hmmm, or tries to apologize without actually saying" sorry ". Your boyfriend may want to hear the exact words, so be prepared to say.
3. If she asks you to go, tell him you want to apologize. Tell him you really want to fix this and make your relationship back on track. Do not shout or cutting words, you might scare him and make things become worse.
If he seems really upset and did not want to respond apology now, let it. Ask him when you can call in a few days.
4. Calmly explain to him the reasons behind your actions. If you think about the problem (Step 1), you have to know what and why you are doing wrong, and how you can fix it in the future.
Example: "I know I have to apologize I should not lie to you or your parents about my age, I knew it was the wrong thing to do, but I do not want you or they do not believe me because I'm older. I really care about you and your parents, so I plan to apologize to them directly. I understand if you or they are still mad at me after this ".
Example: "I should not see Anita as I did I know that he's your friend, and I never do anything to jeopardize my relationship with you or your relationship with him, I have no excuse for my actions, just an explanation: a lot of guys look at girls. Now I know it's really bothering you, I will try my best to not make the same mistake again. "
Example: "I'm sorry for yelling, I will not even repeat it. It was wrong and demeaning. I admit that I should not let slip. . . . I realize that you might change my opinion on that basis, so I will try to do everything I can to fix it ".
5. Give him time to respond. Let him ask all the questions that need answers. Respond honestly. Some things to remember when you let interrogating you:
- Do not blame. Even if you are not the only ones at fault, not a good idea to blame. An apology is not going to work if you do it. Let him express how angry, frustrated, or upset him.
- Do not try to convince him not to be so, he has a right to it. This will make her feel better.
- Do not try to show affection at this moment, it's probably still a bit too early. That means no kiss, hug, or holding hands unless he started.
6. Tell him you will give him time if he needs it. Repeat your apology again briefly and walk away if he wanted some time alone. Respect how to respond.
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