After breaking up, there's nothing wrong if they want to make friends with a former lover. However, the former are people who have very close and share the love, joy and sorrow with you. But often the closeness between the former lovers are not purely because just wanted to be friends. As quoted from Madame Noire, if the following reasons that makes you still want to be close to the former, you should forget about it because it will be more hurt feelings and make it difficult to move on.
1. Fear of Losing Feeling
If you continue to communicate with each other, despite being broke means you can not get away with him. So that the former does not go away, you developed a close friendship with him. You want him to stay here for some time because of fear of loss. However, it can make you not be able to move on and back hurt someday.
2. To Prove
Sometimes, high ego makes you let the former ever hurt again present, even a friendship with him. This is because you do want to show you something, for example, want to tell your ex that now is a strong woman and can live without him. However, by allowing the former to come back into your life, it means the same as allow it to hurt you again. If you've really does not matter, you'll never allow him reentry.
3. Former Still Want You
You might be difficult to move on from the former dear. Over time, you can forget that feeling because it has found a new lover. However, an ex come back when trying to approach you. You were even a friendship with him. It is not fair for the couple who now accompany despite your feelings towards the former is gone. Instead, keep a distance with the former so as not to hurt your partner.
4. He is your type
One of the reasons women make the former as a friend because he's the type who craves. Perhaps you factor breakup because he turns bad boyfriend and did not hesitate to hurt you. After breaking up, there are some men who ever you're dating, but you feel no better than him. It causes you to take it again when he came to apologize and want to improve your relationship. If you allow him back, quite likely you will get hurt like before.
5. Mutual Feeling 'Bound'
Feeling 'bound', you make him the best friend after breaking up. Basically, a friend will feel happy when seeing her friend happy, which means that you will be happy if he is happy with another woman. However, if the friendship that you wake up because of the 'bound' or to keep it together, it can hurt you when it already has a replacement lover.
6. Expects to Dating Again
Perhaps the relationship ended because of error partner and you want to see him change so I can get back together. However, you do not really know the changes that are not in a relationship as it once was. Therefore, you should think again when going to end the relationship, if you are sure, better keep your distance and trying to move on after a break up.
1. Fear of Losing Feeling
If you continue to communicate with each other, despite being broke means you can not get away with him. So that the former does not go away, you developed a close friendship with him. You want him to stay here for some time because of fear of loss. However, it can make you not be able to move on and back hurt someday.
2. To Prove
Sometimes, high ego makes you let the former ever hurt again present, even a friendship with him. This is because you do want to show you something, for example, want to tell your ex that now is a strong woman and can live without him. However, by allowing the former to come back into your life, it means the same as allow it to hurt you again. If you've really does not matter, you'll never allow him reentry.
3. Former Still Want You
You might be difficult to move on from the former dear. Over time, you can forget that feeling because it has found a new lover. However, an ex come back when trying to approach you. You were even a friendship with him. It is not fair for the couple who now accompany despite your feelings towards the former is gone. Instead, keep a distance with the former so as not to hurt your partner.
4. He is your type
One of the reasons women make the former as a friend because he's the type who craves. Perhaps you factor breakup because he turns bad boyfriend and did not hesitate to hurt you. After breaking up, there are some men who ever you're dating, but you feel no better than him. It causes you to take it again when he came to apologize and want to improve your relationship. If you allow him back, quite likely you will get hurt like before.
5. Mutual Feeling 'Bound'
Feeling 'bound', you make him the best friend after breaking up. Basically, a friend will feel happy when seeing her friend happy, which means that you will be happy if he is happy with another woman. However, if the friendship that you wake up because of the 'bound' or to keep it together, it can hurt you when it already has a replacement lover.
6. Expects to Dating Again
Perhaps the relationship ended because of error partner and you want to see him change so I can get back together. However, you do not really know the changes that are not in a relationship as it once was. Therefore, you should think again when going to end the relationship, if you are sure, better keep your distance and trying to move on after a break up.
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